Chapter 78

Song Zhaodi felt that her elder sister's way of educating her children was not good, so she smiled and said, "Dali, come to me."

The big girl stretched out her hand and pulled hard.

He staggered vigorously and stood up subconsciously.

Song Zhaodi waved at him.

The big baby pushed vigorously: "Go quickly." Pushing the force to Song Zhaodi's side.

Song Zhaodi nodded the big baby, then lowered her head and asked Dali: "Is it bad that your mother's cooking is delicious? If you are afraid that your mother will beat you up, just nod your head if you don't want to say anything."

Song Dali looked back at his mother, and there was a big baby in front of him.

"Dali, say it." Dawa urged, "If you say yes, I will turn back and give you a duck leg."

The little boy swallowed and nodded vigorously.

Seeing this, Song Zhaodi immediately said to Song Laibao, "Eldest sister, the child eats a lot. If you don't ask the reason, you blame the child. I think you have to deeply reflect on yourself."

"Instead, reflect on what?" Song Laibao didn't understand, "Reflect on my cooking skills?"

Song Zhaodi: "No. You shouldn't hit hard."

"I don't know that he eats a lot at your house because you cook delicious food." Song Laibao said without hesitation.

Song Zhaodi: "Did you ask? You didn't ask, and you didn't allow Dali to say why he eats so much."

"Auntie..." Song Dali gently pulled Song Zhaodi's sleeve.

Song Zhaodi smiled and said, "I'm not blaming your mother. Daddy, you go upstairs to take a nap. I have to chat with your aunt. Often hitting a child can easily turn a child into an idiot."

"Let's go, Dali." Zi Li knew that his mother was not going to say that, although he didn't know what his mother was going to say, he still reached out to Dali, "Let's go to the storybook."

Dali didn't move, he was afraid that his mother would quarrel with his aunt.

Zhong Dawa pulled Dali's arm and winked at Zili, and the two brothers worked together to carry Dali away.

Song Zhaodi pulled the bench and sat down: "Eldest sister, don't rush to clean up, let's talk."

"Give me a class?" Song Laibao blurted out.

Song Zhaodi choked, reminding herself that this elder sister is honest and honest, and this elder sister is honest and honest: "Of course not, you are not my student. I just wanted to say that you should not beat your children.

"Children are still young and can't tell right from wrong. If they do something wrong, we as parents have to tell him what's wrong, and remind them that they won't do it again in the future."

"You think I want to fight? They can't remember if I don't fight." Song Laibao said.

Song Zhaodi was tired: "Sister, let's not talk about the past or the future, just say that you have eaten too much today. When you encounter delicious food, can you hold back?"

Song Laibao remained silent.

Song Zhaodi: "As elders, we can't help it, so we have no right to blame the children. What we can do is to remind the children when they are eating, it's uncomfortable to eat, and don't eat too much. But you didn't remind them."

"I, I didn't know he would eat so much." Song Laibao muttered.

Song Zhaodi: "Look, come back again. Dali is your son, you don't know his usual appetite? You don't know that means you don't care about your child. You are not doing your duty as a mother, why should you ask your child to listen to him? yours?"

"That's because I'm busy." Song Laibao blurted out.

Song Zhaodi smiled: "You two children, three old people will take care of you, and my five children will be taken care of by myself. Are you busy or I am busy?"

Song Laibao was speechless.

"Eldest sister, are the children in our family obedient?" Zhong Jianguo asked.

Liu Yang was the first to speak: "Be obedient, be obedient."

"Then let me say something you don't believe. Zhao Di and I have never beaten a child." Zhong Jianguo said.

Liu Yang hurriedly asked, "If the child made a mistake, don't you fight?"

Zhong Jianguo recounted the story of Song Zhaodi getting a pot of braised pork and putting it in front of him: "A person's weakness is like a man's door, find a child's weakness, you loosen the rope and let him play hard. He didn't dare to run too far.

"Our five children are self-reliant and reborn, honest and well-behaved. The eldest child is naughty, but the eldest child is greedy, so he is very good at taking care of him. The second child can tell the truth, and if you say it, the second child, you are obedient, and I will make a new one for you later. Clothes, the second baby is more honest than self-reliance and rejuvenation. The third baby in our family is not stingy, but I am most afraid that my brothers will not take him to play. "

Liu Yang subconsciously asked Song Laibao, "What are Dali and Liu Gen afraid of?"

Song Laibao moved his mouth and found that she didn't know either.

Song Zhaodi sighed: "Eldest sister, I have to remind you one more thing, when you called Dali to work with Liu Gen, the way you spoke was not right.

"For example, if I call Dawa to set fire to the fire, Dawa will say, Mom, I want to eat scrambled eggs. I will say, you set fire to it, and I will cook it for you. If you change it to Dali, you will say, eat, eat, eat all day long. Let you do some work, either to eat this or that, without your gluttony.

"You talk so much, you feel happy, and the child bothers you. But you can't help but make it for the child in the end. The child will not think how good his mother is when he wants to eat delicious food, but will think that this The delicious meal was something he could get scolded for.

"If the child thinks that the mother hurts him very much, he will take the initiative to make a lot of delicious food for him. When the child makes a mistake, you are angry and the child will be afraid. This is not afraid of you to beat him, it is most likely that you will not be in the future. If you hurt him again, be good to him."

"I, I didn't nag too much." Song Laibao thought to himself, how could he be remembered by you.

Song Zhaodi: "I have a headache listening to what you said, so I remember it very clearly. Also, when you ask Dali to do your homework, don't tell your children that your work as parents is very tiring and not easy. Now If you don’t study hard, you will be the same as you in the future.

"The child hasn't experienced it, and you can't imagine it. If you can't imagine it, you won't take your words to heart. It's better to tell the child, do your homework well, and buy you meat tomorrow. Or endorse it well. , when I grow up, I can be an officer like Jianguo."

"Zhao Di is right." Zhong Jianguo said, "Adults are more sensible than children, precisely because adults have experienced more. Adults can understand reason and children can understand, then they are not children."

Song Laibao looked at Song Zhaodi, and then at Zhong Jianguo: "I understand it, you two have already agreed, and give me a lesson today."

"Eldest sister, you think too much." Zhong Jianguo said blankly, "Zhao Di said so much in front of me because you hit hard. If you don't hit your children, I leave early and come home late, and I want to find a chance with you. Saying this, it may not be possible to find it.”

Liu Yang quickly smoothed things out: "Jian Guo, don't be angry, your eldest sister likes to nag. By the way, it's time for you to go to work?"

"Yes, I'm leaving." Zhong Jianguo got up and left.

Song Laibao was a little embarrassed: "Zhao Di, I—"

"When you want to nag in the future, take a few deep breaths." Song Zhaodi said, "My brother-in-law has a good temper and can stand you. In Jianguo, even if you don't get a divorce, you have to quarrel three times a day."

Song Laibao nodded: "I try my best, I try my best."

"Change a little a day, if you have the heart, you can get rid of this problem in less than a year." Song Zhaodi got up to clean up the tableware.

Seeing this, Liu Yang hurriedly helped the two sisters clean up.

After two o'clock, Song Zhaodi took Song Laibao and Liu Yang to the house of Master Liu next door. Because it was the afternoon, Song Laibao didn't even mention the gift money. Sitting at Liu's house for a while, Song Laibao felt a little uncomfortable, so Song Zhaodi came back with the couple.

The next morning, on the eighth day of the first lunar month, Song Zhaodi used practical actions to teach Song Laibao how to make his children work.

At about seven o'clock, Song Zhaodi put a pot of porridge on the stove and went upstairs to call Dawa to get up.

When Song Laibao saw Song Zhaodi and Dawa coming down, he couldn't help but say, "It's cold, let the child sleep a little longer."

"I fell asleep before ten o'clock last night. I've slept for so long, and I'm full early." Song Zhaodi said, "Dad, go make a fire, and I'll cook."

Zhong Dawa yawned: "Mother, fried yam with garlic sprouts, scrambled eggs with shallots, and lettuce with minced garlic, I want to eat them all."

"If you burn fire, I will do it." Song Zhaodi said.

Zhong Dawa didn't wash her face and brush her teeth. She turned around and went to the kitchen. Not only was she not angry, she was quite happy.

Song Laibao whispered, "Do you cook so many dishes in the morning?"

"No." Song Zhaodi fluttered out two words.

Song Laibao's eyes widened, you don't care if you talk, and the child doesn't worry about you?

"Just look at it." Song Zhaodi chopped a pot of lettuce, washed it, and brought it into the kitchen, "Dad, the yam is gone. There are only a dozen duck eggs at home without eggs. I plan to make egg fried rice for you in the evening and fry it in the morning. Lettuce, okay?"

Zhong Dawa thought for a moment: "Okay. Mother, do you want to kill ducks today?"

"Kill two." Song Zhaodi said, "I mean what I say, you can rest assured."

Zhong Dawa was delighted, holding her chin in one hand and stuffing firewood under the pot with the other.

Song Laibao and Liu Yang stood at the door of the kitchen, looking at each other.

Song Zhaodi noticed it out of the corner of her eye, smiled, and said, "Dad, you have to shed duck feathers at home, you can't run out to play, my aunt and I go out to buy some yam, and keep it for us to eat tomorrow morning."

"Okay." Zhong Dawa didn't even think about it, so she should come down, "Mother, buy some more pork bones and kelp."

Song Zhaodi nodded: "I wrote it down."

After breakfast, Song Zhaodi and Song Laibao went out together.

When he got to the door, Song Laibao said, "Your method will only be useful in the past few years. After the founding of the country and promotion, your life is getting better and better, and the children are not short of food or drink. If you use these to educate the children, the children will not be take care of you."

"When we don't lack food or drink, the children will grow up." Song Zhaodi laughed, "I don't need to teach them anymore. Besides, when they don't understand, others will teach the children for me. For example, the people from the paper mill help our parents teach the second sister to be a human being."

Song Laibao originally wanted to say that Song Zhaodi's method of teaching children also has shortcomings, but Song Zhaodi blocked her speechless.

"Eldest sister—" Song Zhaodi noticed that Song Laibao had stopped, thinking that Song Laibao thought she was choking on her speech, so she didn't go to the non-staple food factory with her, she turned her head to look, and followed her line of sight to see several men from the Liu family, "The man in black pants and white shirts That is Liu Ping's husband."

Song Laibao regained his senses, his face full of shock: "That young man looks like a movie actor, how could he like Liu Ping?"

"Let's go to Liu's house to give gifts when we come back from the non-staple food factory." Song Zhaodi said, "Ask my aunt, and I'll listen."

Song Laibao looked back while walking, saw a few people entering the house, and quickly followed Song Zhaodi: "There's nothing wrong with that guy, right?"

"There's nothing wrong," Song Zhaodi said. "I work in a shipyard. One of his relatives is a nurse in the hospital. That nurse knows Liu Ping, and she leads the two of them."

Song Laibao looked back subconsciously. There was no one in Liu's courtyard, and he couldn't help but say, "That man has a job and looks good. If you close your eyes and grab it, you can find someone better than Liu Ping."

"Maybe the family is poor and can't get a wife." Song Zhaodi said.

Song Laibao tutted: "Don't fool me. When you grow up like this, most of the little girls are willing to post backwards." After a pause, he looked at Song Zhaodi, "Do you know something? Tell me quickly."

"I don't know." Song Zhaodi said, "I have asked Aunt Liu several times. Every time I mentioned Liu Ping and her partner, Aunt Liu sighed and sighed, and I didn't bother to ask. Anyway, it's not my daughter."

Song Laibao thought about it: "Then should I ask or not?"

"If you mention something casually, if Aunt Liu wants to say it, she will follow your words." Song Zhaodi said, "Aunt Liu doesn't want to talk, it's useless to ask more."

The non-staple food factory is very close to the family home, and the sisters can walk there in a few minutes. The family has a large population, so Song Zhaodi simply bought twenty catties of yam.

Song Laibao was surprised: "I bought too much, Zhao Di."

"Buy more tomorrow to save money." Song Zhaodi asked Song Laibao to carry yam on her back, and she carried a basket to buy bone sticks and kelp.

Song Laibao is Liu Ping's cousin. When Liu Ping got married, Song Laibao and Liu Yang had to go to see Liu Ping. Song Zhaodi was afraid of delaying the Liu family's happy event, so she went straight home after buying good things.

Song Zhaodi knew that Liu Ping didn't like her, so she didn't go with Song Laibao. Seeing Liu Ping being picked up by her husband in her own courtyard, Song Zhaodi took the money and went to the next door.

Walking to the door of Liu's living room, Song Zhaodi heard a low cry, and she wanted to go back as soon as her forehead twitched.

"Zhao Di is here?"

Song Laibao's voice came from inside. Song Zhaodi took a deep breath and lifted her feet in: "Eldest sister, auntie, why are you crying?"

"My aunt is telling me about Liu Ping." Song Laibao glanced at Sister-in-law Duan as he spoke. Sister-in-law Duan nodded slightly. Song Laibao sighed before continuing, "Liu Ping is pregnant."

Song Zhaodi exclaimed, "Pregnant?!"

"Yes." Song Laibao said, "My aunt said it's been almost three months. If you don't pick a good day for them to get married, your belly will get bigger."